My weekend was totally ruined by a friend,X.... M... I think it's not only my fault as things happened but not within my control... was supposed to meet him at Outram at 11pm....I met A at Bukit Panjang at 1030am...However, we were abit late when we boarded the bus, about 1045am...so if the journey takes about 30mins-45mins..We will reached our destination at the most, 1130am... aha...but,about 1050am, X called me and asked me where are we at... ahah...and yes.. I told him we were on the expressway, however, caught in a very heavy traffic jam... and he said that he is still in school... so he b late too... in the end, he reached outram lst, about 1130 am but poor me and A were still stucked in the traffic jam...Trapped all the way, so in the end, we reached the place at about 1225pm...ahah...anyway, the road was jammed becos of an accident, involving a motorcycle and a Big truck...
Reached the place but X was very very angry, saw him and I tried smiling to him...but it doesn't help.... and He told us nt to talk to him cos he is fuming... Took his advice to prevent from any fire... We walked to place but he was at another path..I called his name and wanted to tell him to walk to another area..his reply was so loud and rude, saying, "What!" (in chinese)... m...still tolerate as I really understand waiting ppl for so long wasn't enjoyable... When we went up to the restuarant....I asked him whether he is still angry.. He said, of course and he ask me if I am in his shoes...m...straight ans,I told him No...Not like what he behaved...He told me he came early but No! So, I told him I don't think so, as in the lst place, he was late too, reached at 1130am..if we were early, he's considered late ...and the jam was soooo heavy, what if I took the bus 30 mins earlier...same thing will happen, I will still meet the Jam and still be late... This is nt what I can control or stop... I told him, if he wants to comment about something, so think before he tell me...
Ended up, he felt angrier...he say he don't want to eat already... and he jus walked away...I felt his attitude was very bad and so I ran out and followed him... He jus walked and walked and what I did, was shouted at his name and followed him...Finally, got him.... Told him... I canot control the jam and even we were early, we still meet the jam...but he don't buy my story...Felt so disappointing... cos I thought I alreadly ran out and he made me felt very rejected as he still insist to go... So, I still pulled his bag and I wanted to pass him a present that I wanted to give him, as told was a valentine present, but I lied, actually it was something to Thank him for the recent mths for being a good friend of mine...aahha...anyway he also bought something for me too.. I asked him to take my gift... and he passed me mine but i told him I don't want cos he is still fuming, I want him to calm down n pass me the gift properly.... but nt in this kind of attitude...
Anyway, both of us still didn't accept the gift...cos he expect to have both party receiving but nt only 1 accepting..and he still want to go...Okay, I already turned red..... I asked him not to contact me if he really walk away... and yes.... Bye...
I was really angry till my hands trembled.... as I thought I already ran out for explanation...I really think that we could talk and settle small issue like this... Chasing him really showed that I cherish him...and What I get...is .....
we actually planned to go out together after the makan...but no more so I went home to slp..so Saturday being Ruined! I always cherish rest days as we had been working for 5 days...so we must make use of the weekends to spend time with family and friends....
Luckily, Shun saved my day, he went dinner with me.... and he brought me to his aunt hse to play manjong till the next morning. After the manjong was about 6am in the morning and so we went for breakfast....At least, felt better...ahah...
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